I am married..and still in love with my ex..in fact my husband was my rebound. That kind of love I think never goes away. He was not in love with me. I am now getting a divorce...and facing the same thing. I thought we could just be friends...we had some sexy conversations...about old times. I found it was just painful to realize all over again...that I was in love with a man who didn't love me for more than just an old friend. All over again...my heart was broken. All at a time...when I could least afford to go through that.

We had remained friends but it was...Merry Christmas...you know no more.

It made me feel almost used...and by the person..I love most in this world...and want love from most in this world. When I saw that...I cut ties. Women just don't do no strings attached well right?

It was exciting and it made me feel good..but I missed him so much and I wanted to see him so badly and I wanted to be with him...it began to ache...because I knew...it wasn't going to happen. I was making it harder with the intimate conversations that made promises of something that could never be.

she is probably still in love with him...and will take what she can get...which is sad

do you use it to make your marriage exciting...or instead of?

I just want to let you know of my relationship with an ex-fiance of mine. We dated for about a year, got engaged and found on his cell phone bill calls to a ex-lover. He took her to Hawaii, Mexico and Arizona while all the time she was married and cheating on her husband. (We were not together at this time) When we got engaged I requested that he stop communication with this girl for I didn't trust her. He agreed (for in his own words he didn't trust her either). Well. long story short he continued to receive calls from her and traveled out of town to her area many, many times. After many warnings I finally called it quits. Mind you this is a woman who wears sexy revealing clothes and rubs his back when she sees him, and insists on a picture of them together, without me!! I guess I felt that she would jump his bones when ever possible. Needless to say I broke off the engagement and moved out of town. My question is was I right or wrong. He claims it was all innocent and she is just a friend, but I could never trust that statement.